I was babysitting Bromley, my 2 year old grandson, when he found a book lying on the floor.
It was a thick book with lots of pages and no pictures
in it. He opened the book, turned some
pages, then closed the book and folded his arms and bowed his head and say,
“prayer”. He waited for me to say a
short prayer, repeating some of the words, then he opened the book again,
turned some pages, then closed the book again and folded his arms and bowed his head
and say, “prayer” . We went through this whole scenario 5 times in a row!
Wow, what a great model my daughter and her husband were giving for their son to follow. It got me thinking about modeling and how that can affect our own actions. A friend of mine from childhood moved back in with her parents, who lived down the street from me, when her parents became ill and unable to care for themselves. She modeled great love for her parents and the importance of taking care of them in their older years. When my mother in law became sick and unable to live by herself, my husband and I invited her to come live with us. We had seen great examples of children caring for their aging parents modeled to us and we followed and wanted to do the same.
What kind of modeling are we doing in our homes with our children? We usually don't even think about what our actions are saying, but we know that actions are like a picture-- worth a thousand words.
How do we model unconditional love with a rebellious teenager while a younger sibling is watching?
How do we model patience when potty training a three year old with the five year old watching?
How do we model forgiveness when our two year colors with crayons on the newly painted wall?
How do we model longsuffering when everyone in the house is sick, including you?
How do we model respecting others when your daughter rants about her _________ math teacher?
How do we model honesty when we find we weren't charged for the french fries we bought with our hamburger?
Many years ago I made a photograph book for my son illustrating when he liked to wear his Daddy's shoes around the house. Each page shows him wearing one of his Dad's shoes, like his work boots, Sunday shoes, fishing shoes, etc. These are the last two pages:
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| I know it's hard for me to walk and keep these shoes on right. So I'll follow Daddy's footsteps as he guides me in the light. |
Choose who you look to for a model carefully, and remember who is watching YOU.
Thanks for reading,
Cathy
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